I have in my memory bank four dates that I consider to be the "best" dates ever. Three of them were with boyfriends:
(In the order of appearance)1. Dancing in the snow under a full moon and then having a snowball fight.
2. Watching the Magic Kingdom fireworks on the Polynesian Beach under a palm tree on a hammock.
4. Driving for hours to share my past, walking a dog and falling asleep on the couch in strong arms.
These are all lovely memories that I have of three men who, at one time or another, stole my heart. Each of these dates gave me the feeling of floating on air, being on Cloud 9 or walking on water. And each of these men has taught me different things about love.
If you notice, though, there's a gap between my Magic Kingdom date and my driving date. That's because date number 3 was with a complete stranger.
After a failed marriage and an abusive boyfriend, I was finding it hard to be excited about dating again. I knew, however, that I had to in order to restore my faith in love and to try to get past the hurt that I was feeling. Someone suggested Match.com and Eharmony (which would later be exciting-see date #4)
I decided to first try Match because it was free. After searching the locals, I decided to check to see if I could find anyone I knew in Orlando. I wasn't looking for a date. I was simply looking for old friends.
Though I didn't find anyone I knew, my search ended when I found Ken. His eyes seemed to sparkle right through the picture and his smile was infectious. He was tall and broad, exactly the way I like men. His profile was fantastic.
I don't know why, but I wrote to him.
I told him why I was looking in Orlando and I told him everything about me. I said that I often travel to Orlando to see friends and perhaps we could become friends. I wasn't looking for a boyfriend, but he seemed very interesting and who couldn't use another friend?
He wrote back almost immediately. He said my email was refreshing and that I seemed like I was a lot of fun, and that he indeed, would love to talk.
He called my cell phone the next day and we talked for about an hour.
We talked about lots of things: our pasts, our families, jobs, relationships, Disney. It was just nice to have someone to talk to. As is happened, I was traveling to Florida for a short trip in a month, and we agreed to have dinner.
Being that I was visiting, he told me to plan what I wanted to do and he would pay. It wasn't a hard decision. I chose Epcot.
We dined at San Angel at the Mexican pavilion. Notoriously romantic, it was a lovely setting.
We laughed and joked and our conversation never lagged. After, we walked around the worlds and watched Illuminations, one of my favorite things to see in WDW.
At it's conclusion, Ken asked if I'd like to go for a drink. Being someone who doesn't often get asked to go for drinks but always wants to be "that girl" I said yes.
We chose the Animal Kingdom Lodge. What was wonderful about this location is that they actually have animals there. In the center of it all, guests can see animals from their rooms. They have long winding trails that guests can explore with pit stops along the way.
Strategically placed fire pits and over sized rocking chairs are the reason I especially love this part the date.
After looking through night goggles at the giraffes, we found a private pit stop and slowly rocked by the fire, nursing our drinks and laughing. As a slight buzz hit me, I was suddenly amazed at how I was sitting here with a complete stranger, in WDW, by a fire, with a nice glass of wine-with no care in the world.
I felt free.
Our drinks were done and it was well past 1am. The date ended with Ken dropping me off at my hotel, giving me a great big bear hug and telling me he had a wonderful time. I agreed and went off to bed.
We played phone tag after I got back to CT, but for some reason we just didn't try to keep talking. I suppose part of me wants to keep my best date #3 as perfect as it is-but whatever the reason, I am content knowing that dates like that exist and that I was lucky enough to have one.
And before you all ask why I don't try to look him up now (T!) I'm 99% sure he is gay. ;)